Five ways to know you MIGHT be a Dominant

 You are more relaxed in situations which you can control. You feel extremely protective of those under your care or authority. You thought the guy in the movie The Secretary was a wimp and needed to embrace his kinkiness. You fantasize about having a submissive kneeling before you. You've threatened - or wanted to threaten … Continue reading Five ways to know you MIGHT be a Dominant

Behavior Incentive

You’re with Me We've been down this road before. The last time, with the proper incentive, you behaved perfectly. You were your charming, intelligent, confident self. I couldn't have been prouder of you. Answer me honestly. Which part - the spanking, the fucking, or the plug most reminded you of how to behave properly. Really? … Continue reading Behavior Incentive

Five signs you MIGHT be a submissive

 You have an almost uncontrollable desire to refer to your significant other (real or imagined) with an honorific rather than his/her name. You derive great personal pleasure from serving others in non-sexual ways (meals, cleaning, transcribing notes, etc.) You fantasize about someone giving you explicit directions on what they expect. You understand well that that … Continue reading Five signs you MIGHT be a submissive

Paying for new clothes

So I'm wearing a new skirt today which is beautiful and flowly and comfy and elegant all at the same time. Milord, though, has decided that before I can wear something new, I must "pay" for that privilege. (I'm TOTALLY down with this idea!!!) So, first I must worship his cock and balls - SQUEEEE!!!! … Continue reading Paying for new clothes