Bragging equals exposure

H has always liked to discipline me by humiliation. Pain - I like it. Anal plugs - Never wetter. Public exposure, however, OMG!!! Still, I could object. He won't FORCE me. Today, we were at a secluded lake fishing. (Yes, fishing. We both LOVE to fish!) The lake is privately owned and, as I said, … Continue reading Bragging equals exposure

Incitement to rape? — A Faded Romantic’s Notebook

I have published this post four times before, but it feels like a good time to post it again. First posted September 1st 2015 Sometimes I get serious It seems an ageing female rock star recently suggested in an interview with one of our sad excuses for a serious newspaper that women/girls who dress provocatively […] … Continue reading Incitement to rape? — A Faded Romantic’s Notebook

5 ways to let Him know you need Dominated

 TELL HIM.  Simple, but often ignored. Have a heart to heart conversation about what you truly need and what you are willing to do to get it. Research.  Peruse some factual and fictional sites together to come up with ideas that excite you both. Start slowly. When you are both ready, begin adding words like … Continue reading 5 ways to let Him know you need Dominated