Pride Month – Personal Perspective (Non-fiction)

Am I the only one who thinks this whole "_____ Month"' has gotten a bit out of hand? We now have Pride Month, Black History Month, Asian American History Month, Irish American History month, Heart Disease awareness month, Autism Awareness Month, Alzheimer's Awareness month (which is near and dear to my heart), Breast Cancer awareness … Continue reading Pride Month – Personal Perspective (Non-fiction)

5 ways to let Him know you need Dominated

 TELL HIM.  Simple, but often ignored. Have a heart to heart conversation about what you truly need and what you are willing to do to get it. Research.  Peruse some factual and fictional sites together to come up with ideas that excite you both. Start slowly. When you are both ready, begin adding words like … Continue reading 5 ways to let Him know you need Dominated

Y is for Yes

Yes is an extremely powerful word. It implies permission and acceptance - two very different, but companionable ideas. The who says this (or doesn't say it) also holds a great deal of power. This, dear readers, is a shared responsibility between the Dom and Sub; Top and Bottom; Master/Mistress and slave. Any relationship, not just … Continue reading Y is for Yes

V is for Vanilla

Let's be honest, there's absolutely nothing wrong with vanilla. In fact, most people find the scent comforting and the flavor delightful. In the BDSM world, Vanilla is also perfectly fine. For us, though, it means sexual/romantic activity lacking kinkiness. No "Sirs", paddles, cuffs, hair pulling, blindfolds, or other accoutrements. It's holding hands, kissing gently, slow … Continue reading V is for Vanilla

S is for submissive

I don't like when people, some even within the lifestyle, believe that a submissive is a weaker person, one whose purpose is to serve unconditionally. This is totally false. Submissives do not suffer from low self esteem, inferiority complex, acceptance of abuse, or any other mental illness any more than the rest of the population. … Continue reading S is for submissive