Five signs you MIGHT be a submissive

 You have an almost uncontrollable desire to refer to your significant other (real or imagined) with an honorific rather than his/her name. You derive great personal pleasure from serving others in non-sexual ways (meals, cleaning, transcribing notes, etc.) You fantasize about someone giving you explicit directions on what they expect. You understand well that that … Continue reading Five signs you MIGHT be a submissive

Why being submissive means being STRONG

People who like to harshly judge what they don't understand often think that being a submissive means being a doormat at best and abused at worse. This could not be further from the truth as pointed out in an article in Psychology Today Rather than being weak, willingly giving up control to another person shows a … Continue reading Why being submissive means being STRONG

Pride Month – Personal Perspective (Non-fiction)

Am I the only one who thinks this whole "_____ Month"' has gotten a bit out of hand? We now have Pride Month, Black History Month, Asian American History Month, Irish American History month, Heart Disease awareness month, Autism Awareness Month, Alzheimer's Awareness month (which is near and dear to my heart), Breast Cancer awareness … Continue reading Pride Month – Personal Perspective (Non-fiction)

5 ways to let Him know you need Dominated

 TELL HIM.  Simple, but often ignored. Have a heart to heart conversation about what you truly need and what you are willing to do to get it. Research.  Peruse some factual and fictional sites together to come up with ideas that excite you both. Start slowly. When you are both ready, begin adding words like … Continue reading 5 ways to let Him know you need Dominated

Y is for Yes

Yes is an extremely powerful word. It implies permission and acceptance - two very different, but companionable ideas. The who says this (or doesn't say it) also holds a great deal of power. This, dear readers, is a shared responsibility between the Dom and Sub; Top and Bottom; Master/Mistress and slave. Any relationship, not just … Continue reading Y is for Yes