Punished with Pleasure

So the first time I purchased a Gift for Milord he gave permission for me to go to another town. This is why I assumed (yes, I realize the problem with assuming) that I had implicit permission the second time I purchased a gift. My mistake!!! My Rule SPECIFICALLY stated local, and since I did NOT have permission to go … Continue reading Punished with Pleasure

National Erotic Humiliation Day 2018

This is NOT National humiliation morning, afternoon, evening, hour, minute. it is National Erotic Humiliation DAY as in 24 hours!! And that is exactly what My Lion has devised, something I gave my willing permission for him. In fact, my exact words were: A day lasts for 24 hours. I want to feel your power … Continue reading National Erotic Humiliation Day 2018

U is for Uniform

By definition, a uniform is a distinctive type of clothing worn for the purpose of identification. Many people enjoy wearing uniforms for both BDSM/kinky purposes or in the course of their jobs. After all, who hasn't heard about the mythical "man in uniform" scenerio or the French Maid's uniform. Clothing says a lot about us. … Continue reading U is for Uniform

M is for Mental Bondage

BDSM doesn't have to involve ropes, chains, and cuffs. Sometimes, just a word is enough. A long time ago I was mentally in a place where I simply could not stand even the sight of ropes, cuffs, or any other form of physical bondage. We worked our way back slowly. My husband, always creative, slowly … Continue reading M is for Mental Bondage

C – BDSM Alpabet

Oh, so many possibilities - Collar, Cuff, Cum, Cock and Ball torture, Clips, Cuffing, Cupping, cane, candles, Chastity, clamps, cock ring - the possibilities really are close to endless. Sadly, I'm just going to concentrate on one. (Of course, if anyone would like my opinion/explanation for another, just leave a comment!) CUFFS:  I absolutely adore … Continue reading C – BDSM Alpabet