Five signs you MIGHT be a submissive

 You have an almost uncontrollable desire to refer to your significant other (real or imagined) with an honorific rather than his/her name. You derive great personal pleasure from serving others in non-sexual ways (meals, cleaning, transcribing notes, etc.) You fantasize about someone giving you explicit directions on what they expect. You understand well that that … Continue reading Five signs you MIGHT be a submissive

Paying for new clothes

So I'm wearing a new skirt today which is beautiful and flowly and comfy and elegant all at the same time. Milord, though, has decided that before I can wear something new, I must "pay" for that privilege. (I'm TOTALLY down with this idea!!!) So, first I must worship his cock and balls - SQUEEEE!!!! … Continue reading Paying for new clothes

5 reasons why BoHo blends with BDSM

 No Lingerie required! - This speaks for itself! If your Dominant (and you, of course!) prefer to be open and available at all times, BoHo styles are free flowing enough to not require a bra or panties. Corsets allowed - On the other hand, if you both prefer lingerie - bra, panties, harness, corset, whatever … Continue reading 5 reasons why BoHo blends with BDSM

10 ways to show Submission when you can’t have sex

 Speak respectfully - throw a "Sir" or "Mistress" or other honorific into your mundane conversation. Dress - Dress in a manner which pleases your Dominant - dresses, dress shirt/slacks, skimpy, no shirt at all. Food - either cook or order your Dominant's favorites. Food is sexy!!! Read - read aloud to your Dominant or, read … Continue reading 10 ways to show Submission when you can’t have sex