You have an almost uncontrollable desire to refer to your significant other (real or imagined) with an honorific rather than his/her name. You derive great personal pleasure from serving others in non-sexual ways (meals, cleaning, transcribing notes, etc.) You fantasize about someone giving you explicit directions on what they expect. You understand well that that … Continue reading Five signs you MIGHT be a submissive
So I'm wearing a new skirt today which is beautiful and flowly and comfy and elegant all at the same time. Milord, though, has decided that before I can wear something new, I must "pay" for that privilege. (I'm TOTALLY down with this idea!!!) So, first I must worship his cock and balls - SQUEEEE!!!! … Continue reading Paying for new clothes
No Lingerie required! - This speaks for itself! If your Dominant (and you, of course!) prefer to be open and available at all times, BoHo styles are free flowing enough to not require a bra or panties. Corsets allowed - On the other hand, if you both prefer lingerie - bra, panties, harness, corset, whatever … Continue reading 5 reasons why BoHo blends with BDSM
Speak respectfully - throw a "Sir" or "Mistress" or other honorific into your mundane conversation. Dress - Dress in a manner which pleases your Dominant - dresses, dress shirt/slacks, skimpy, no shirt at all. Food - either cook or order your Dominant's favorites. Food is sexy!!! Read - read aloud to your Dominant or, read … Continue reading 10 ways to show Submission when you can’t have sex
We went into the woods behind our home. It's very private, being posted, and miles and miles from the city. He had me dress simply. Sandals and a simple dress. Nothing more. We were barely inside the grove when he held out his hand. I slipped the dress over my head and handed it to … Continue reading Reconnecting
He knows I hate this. This waiting. Which is precisely why he does it. I've broken no rule and today is not Maintenance Day, but he has chosen to have me stand her, facing the wall, as he relaxes from his work day. It is his right, a right I have given to him. And … Continue reading What will he do?
He texted her and told her to wait for him by the window. When he pulled into the driveway, she was the first thing he wanted to see. He'd been gone for two weeks and during that time he'd strengthened her rules. She liked that, needed that, wanted that. When she got home from work, … Continue reading Complete