Y is for Yes

Yes is an extremely powerful word. It implies permission and acceptance - two very different, but companionable ideas. The who says this (or doesn't say it) also holds a great deal of power. This, dear readers, is a shared responsibility between the Dom and Sub; Top and Bottom; Master/Mistress and slave. Any relationship, not just … Continue reading Y is for Yes

X is for Xenophilia

Xenophilia - one who is sexually excited by strangers. Hmmmm. Maybe this partially explains the allure of the one night stand bar hook-up. As with everything else, if this is your thing, use common sense as regards your safety. Better yet, let the "stranger" be unknown to you, but NOT to the arranger, possibly your … Continue reading X is for Xenophilia